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A learning curve – Featuring The Curve Fashion Festival.

Hi all!

 I wanted to save writing this post until this The Curve Fashion Festival 2019 had been announced and then I decided to give myself a little break over Christmas so I apologise that this is almost two months after the event but here goes.

I was lucky enough to be gifted two tickets last minute for The Curve Fashion Festival 2018 in return for a previous blog post. Having only attended one previous TCFF (whilst heavily pregnant) I was super excited to attend and quickly made travel arrangements. I was quite apprehensive about travelling 3 hours on a train alone (and then 3 hours back) so soon after my op but I thought I’d bite the bullet and attend as I really wanted to go! I booked my train tickets and started to plan what I was going to wear. I was really lucky that Matalan were interested in dressing bloggers for the event and so I was kindly offered an outfit to wear for the day. I looked through the plus size offerings with excitement and settled on a boho style embroidered blouse and chunky cleated boots which I decided to wear with a high waisted button up denim skirt and a suede tassled shoulder bag which converts into a backpack.

All laid out!

Trying my outfit on!

My cousin kindly came over the night before and pincurled my hair for me and so I wrapped it in a bandanna to keep it covered and went on the train like that. In fact, the night before I went car shopping like that – zero shits given! I took my tangle teaser with me to do my hair on the train as I was heading to the train before 8am and didn’t want my curls to drop! I also took my makeup bag with me to do my makeup on the train so I didn’t have to get up even earlier!

 

I got a quick snap of my outfit (with added tassel earrings) and got in the car. Adam was dropping me at the train station before he headed to work so we were out nice and early.

I worried about my trains because of the strikes but my first one came on time and I found my reserved seat easily and got comfy for the journey. Once we were going I started applying my makeup and got it half done before it was time to swap at York. I used the stop over to grab a quick coffee, facetime Eleanor who had slept at my cousins house and I boarded my second train. Unfortunately on this journey I encountered an older couple who were taking the mick out of me putting my makeup on and making faces. I promptly called them out on it and they didn’t dare look at me for the rest of the journey. Half an hour before we arrived I took my pincurls out and gently brushed them in to place. They came out beautifully and I was in awe of how well the pincurls worked.

I arrived at Liverpool Lime Street and set off to find my friend Dawn. I met Dawn on the Team Topsy group which is a group linked to the Topsy Curvy business – however it has became a place of body positivity, friendship and self love. We have been chatting/facebook friends for quite a while and so I mentioned that I had a spare ticket and Dawn kindly agreed to accompany me.

The venue was literally over the road but there was slight confusion over how to get in but we eventually found a red carpet and a balloon arch. We actually thought it was a different event at first but I asked the security guard who told us it was the entrance. Of course I needed a picture in the balloon arch!

Once inside we were quite excited, but started to notice how the venue was quite restrictive. Straight through the door was a big set of steps to get in with only one lift. We were able enough to walk up but for those less able it must of been a bit of a struggle or they would of had to queue for the lift. We gave in our tickets and found our way to the main hall.

Inside was super overwhelming. The first row of stalls was completely packed with a tight walkway which was made even tighter by one retailer deciding to put their stock half way into the aisle which made a tight space even tighter. It took us quite a while to get through the first row and it was an uncomfortable squeeze to get through so many people. I felt like I couldn’t really stop to look at the stalls because there was constantly somebody pushing past or shoving me out of the way.

We eventually made our way to the middle of the rows which was wide and open however a lot of the retailers stalls were small and hard to access. They almost packed too many clothes into the spaces which made viewing really hard. I went with the intention of buying clothes but I came home with a set of underwear and a belt.

I made a beeline for the third row to find our babes at Topsy Curvy. I was so happy and proud to see their stall super busy with loads of people buying their beautiful stock. I of course got a picture with Jo & Nat and we had a good chat and I also chatted with some of the people shopping at their stall.

I also got this beaut picture with Nat and the lovely Dawn who was just a wee babe all day. I kept getting tangled in my bag and she kept rescuing me and also took photos for me too.

I then headed over to the River Island stand to ask why plus size clothing was being taken out of stores. I was told this had happened much earlier in the year due to lack of purchasing. I told them that their plus size range is poorly advertised as being available in store and not many people knew it existed. I was eventually fobbed off with a “it may be returning soon” and a free goody bag.

After a look around the stalls me and Dawn headed for some dinner at a Wetherspoons over the road. We had our lunch and headed back hoping it would be a bit quieter. We came into contact with a few people on our return who were fed up, upset and disappointed with the access in the venue. We learned that there was only one lift which was super busy and a bit out of the way and that the catwalk seating was small and uncomfortable. I was stopped by Georgina Grogan who was actually leaving TCFF early due to the poor accessibility. Georgina had spent a fair bit of money on hotel/travel etc but was leaving as it was just too much. She has written a post on the day  which highlights a lot of the issues she faced.

I was starting to feel a bit more comfortable at this point as the crowds had thinned a bit. I kept heading back to the Topsy Curvy stand which became my safe space but I also browsed the stalls too. Here’s some of my highlights!

I met up with the gorgeous Kirsty who is just a wee babe!

Before/After

I braved the first row and got my boobs measured by the wonderful Weir Wonderful Fit. She measured me at 2 back sizes smaller and 2 cup sizes bigger than I was wearing.

I found the most beautiful rose wall at the Pink Clove stand!

I met Gemma Collins at the Boohoo stand who is a total sweetheart in person!

After a final look around it was time for me to head for my train home. My Matalan boots remained comfortable all day which I was super surprised and glad about! I settled in for my train home which would take me all the way to Darlington and I would only have a short train back to Thornaby after that. Unfortunately the strikes caught up with me and they cancelled my second train and Adam had to drive over and pick me up. It was a cold and annoying way to end the day but thankfully the wonderful Team Topsy ladies kept me company as I went live in the group to keep me occupied.

Finally home, I curled up on the sofa and unpacked all my goodie bags to see what I had gained. Most confusing was the random mash pots given by one brand – however I have eaten them when I was poorly and couldn’t be bothered to make food and so maybe they were a genius idea. I also loved the free mirror from Pretty Little Thing! I love a little pocket/handbag mirror and I’ve already used this loads.

I opened my free goodie bag from River Island which I later found out was given out when people made a purchase rather than just given out. I feel like she gave me one to silence me when complaining about lack of plus sizes in store – however I’m not complaining. I’ve worn those hoops loads and I’ve worn the necklace and even used the eyeshadow palette. There was also a green lipstick but I rehomed that to Jo who took a shine to it.

I actually did an online order or something I’d seen at TCFF. I ordered this totally boujee and beautiful robe with matching romper from Boohoo. I got it 25% off and I was glad I swooped in when I did because they sold out super quick. I like to swan about my house in the robe or just sit looking at it hanging in my bedroom. ROBE. OF. DREAMS.

Final thoughts?

I am extremely lucky that I had no physical accessibility issues this year however if I had attended in a wheelchair like I did previously I would not of coped at all. The first row of stalls were hectic and busy and I was super annoyed at that brand for causing an obstruction with their clothing rails which was most of the issue. I kinda hoped there would of been more brands and I felt there should of been more refreshment options. The cocktail bar was a cute idea but it was super busy and so we didn’t get anywhere near it and we had to leave the venue to find somewhere to eat.

THAT BEING SAID.

I still had an amazing day. It was just wonderful to be around so many inspirational, beautiful, unapologetically plus sized humans and I loved seeing more and more trendy clothes filtering in. I was in awe of some of the gorgeous outfits that people were wearing and got inspiration from so many people. I went home wrapped in a self love bubble with excitement for the next year. After all the complaints/comments/posts about the accessibility this year the TCFF have already confirmed a venue change and have promised they will be working hard to make sure it is accessible for all. I have so much faith in the team and the fact they have already addressed this and the fact that they are working so hard to make the appropriate changes is amazing. The venue for next year is The ACC at Liverpool docks which I have previously been to for a huge conference and can confirm is a really excellent choice for the venue. I’ve already booked my hotel for the weekend and I’m hoping to take Eleanor and Adam with me and make a weekend of it. Loads of the Team Topsy members have booked the same hotel which is so exciting – I’m hoping for an after party, maybe dinner with friends or just a hang out! TCFF18 has left me wanting more and I’m already counting down the months for TCFF19.

If anybody is considering going to TCFF19 – DO IT! It’s such a positive day full of the best people and with all the changes being made this year I feel like it’s going to be the best/most accessible one yet. Tickets are already on sale and can be found here ! I’m waiting to buy mine as I can’t decide on regular or VIP. There’s more to be announced about VIP so I’m waiting to see if that sways my decision.

I wanted to finish this post with a few thank yous. Thank you to Dawn for coming with me! Thank you to Jo & Nat and everybody who stopped and chatted with me on the day and took pictures. I love the community that Topsy Curvy have built – it’s truly amazing. However the biggest thank you has to go to The TCFF team for all the hard work that goes in to putting on such an incredible event. It must take so much organising, so much effort and must be exhausting in both the run up and on the day. You are amazing and should be so proud of yourselves!

Are you going to TCFF19? Let me know below!

Thanks for reading.

Hannah x

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A night filled with a lorra lorra laughs.

Hi All!

In my post last week, I mentioned I had been in touch with Darlington Hippodrome and had chosen some shows to attend. Last week was the amazing The Full Monty and honestly I didn’t think it could be beaten for enjoyment factor. I was wrong. Fast forward a week and it was time to attend Cilla The Musical which I’ve been so excited to see. As a kid I grew up watching Cilla on my TV – no Saturday night was complete without shows like Blind Date or Surprise! Surprise! As I grew older I discovered that Cilla wasn’t just a warm hearted and down to earth TV Host, she was also an incredible singer. I later watched “Cilla” with Sheridan Smith and was shocked to learn of her humble beginnings in “Scottie Road” and her ties with The Beatles. When I saw Cilla The Musical on the press list I jumped at the chance to go and promptly invited my mum to join me as I know how much of a Cilla fan she is too!

The night came around quickly and soon it was the usual decision of what to wear. My shape has been changing recently and so my wardrobe is getting more and more limited. With the show being set in the 60’s I wanted to reflect the era and went with a checked mini skirt and a flared sleeve  blouse. I bought both items last year in the New Look January sales and I think they both came to around £8 – BARGAIN!

My makeup and hair I kept quite simple. I went for eyeliner only in a dramatic cat eye with a little colour on my lips and a sparkly highlighter. My hair I wore straight (something I rarely do) and down. I had planned to wear it in a slight beehive however my hair was too clean to cooperate and I didn’t particularly want to fill it with hairspray – I’d of only had to wash it again!

I decided to “borrow” Adams coat again as I felt like it went with the outfit, I popped on my new Matalan boots and I was ready to go!

We made the journey there full of excitement and chat about both the show and the actual building. Darlington Hippodrome has recently been renovated and mum was eager to see the changes.

We parked over the road and walked over to the Hippodrome whilst taking in the beauty of the building. Mum was shocked and amazed by the renovations inside and we took a few moments to explore the downstairs before popping up to meet Julian for our tickets.

As well as a similar programme as last time, this time we were provided with a CD with a few songs on from the show. I gave this to my mam to play in her car and honestly I’m sat here wondering how many hundreds of times she’s played it so far.

We slowly made our way to find our seats whilst mum told me about how Darlington Hippodrome used to be and mentioned shows she’d been to previously.

  

Seats found we marvelled at how cool the stage curtain was and picked out our favourite bands whilst we waited in anticipation for the show to start.

The first act started with a bang and honestly the show didn’t lose momentum at any time. Kara Lily Hayworth was just the most incredible Cilla. She had the accent, the voice, the mannerisms. She put on such a brilliant show and we were hooked from the first scene “speaking to the paparazzi” in front of the curtain. The show progressed with some fantastic live music from all the bands, beautiful perfomances from Kara as Cilla and really hilarious scenes. Neil MacDonald as John White was just hilarious and every scene with him was an absolute cracker. I have to mention Andrew Lancel who I recognised straight away as Frank from Corrie. He played Brian Epstein and he really portrayed him so well. He made me laugh, smile but most of all he made my heart ache as he showed Brians closeted homosexuality.

The interval quickly came around and we went for a look around the theatre. I was surprised to see that there was three tiers of seating and fell in love with the Edwardian splendour of the first floor boxes.

We went and got our interval drinks and sat in a quiet spot at the top of the stairs taking in the beauty of the stained glass windows and all the original features.

 

We returned to our seats for the second half and we were gripped all the way till the end. The show is so clever in its use of live music, moving stages and simple scenery to transition scenes and the whole show just flowed effortlessly. Before we knew it, huge letters were coming down from the ceiling to spell out CILLA and everybody was on stage for a finale mashup. We were dancing and clapping along and we were so pleased to see so many other people just dancing and having fun because thats what theatre is about – the enjoyment. At one point I looked to my right and there was an older lady dancing in the aisles and it made me smile even more. The show ended and we were all on our feet for a standing ovation. The atmosphere in the room was electric and I could of honestly stayed for hours more just listening to the live music. The music just blew me away, I knew that there was going to be a lot of talent on the stage but I wasn’t quite prepared for just how much there was!

As we were leaving I spotted the lady dancing in the aisle. I went over to her and told her she was amazing and was my new favourite person. She kissed me on both cheeks and told me it was her 70th birthday. Rose, where ever you may be I hope you had the most fantastic birthday – it looked like you were having a blast!

We drove home on a high, listening to the Cilla CD which took away from the fact it was absolutely bouncing down with rain. I made my way to bed and must of sang myself to sleep with Cilla songs. Even a week later they’re still stuck in my head!

Thank you again Darlington Hippodrome for having me. Cilla was just incredible and I feel so lucky to be one of the people who has been to see such a wonderful show.

Thanks for reading!

Hannah x

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Taking A Walk On The Wild Side – Featuring Primark Green Leopard Skirt

Hi All!

I’ve never been a fan of leopard print. It’s never appealed to me at all and it’s always reminded me of people like Kat Slater and so I’ve just avoided it completely. This year I’ve seen leopard print creeping in and becoming more and more popular – there’s been a ton of different colours available and the print has been used in ways I’ve not really seen before. So, imagine my surprise when I walked into Primark a few weeks ago looking for something to wear for my nephews christening and fell in love with a leopard print skirt!! The skirt is part of the Stacey Solomon collection and is stunning. In fact, most of her collection is stunning.

Stacey Solomon x Primark green leopard

I picked the skirt up because I loved both the pleated style, the green colour and the scattered leopard print and spent the next half hour walking around the shop with it trying to decide if it was me or not. I decided to purchase it but made sure to leave the tags on and hung it up whilst I decided what I would wear with it.

As much as I intended to wear it to my nephews christening, I decided to give it a road test on a date night with Adam. We headed to Uno’s in Middlesbrough and at first I was going to go casual in a jumper but Adam came down the stairs looking all fancy and so I decided to dress up a little. I popped my new skirt on with a ribbed black eyelet opening and some suede loafers.

My hair is looking very blonde at the moment!

We had a lovely meal (well Adam did, I still can’t eat much) and just enjoyed spending a little bit of time together after a crazy few weeks.

I next wore my skirt for my nephews christening which is where I intended to wear my skirt in the first place. As it was a special occasion I made the effort to put makeup on and went with a smokey gold eye to pick out the colours in the leopard.

This time I went for a bardot top with long flared sleeves and a pair of sock boots with a block heel. It was a comfy choice but I still felt quite smart. Not as smart as my mum though, how gorgeous did she look?!

Some more snaps of the day! With two of my favourite men, first with Adam and secondly with one of my brothers and the father of my nephew who’s christening it was!

I felt super confident all day. All my cousins are absolutely beautiful and so sometimes I feel a bit intimidated standing next to them because they always look so glamorous and then there’s me with no makeup and a mum bun – however I felt just as beautiful as them.

After the christening we headed back to our cousins house and hung out before we went out for some dinner. When we went to head back out it was absolutely freezing so Adam offered to borrow me his coat. Big mistake! Huge! It’s never fit me before so I’ve never tried it on and honestly camel isn’t a colour I would of chosen for myself but I love it! Adam has kindly told me we can share, so I’ll definitely be wearing it again! I felt like it actually really went with my outfit and finished it off nicely.

I’ve definitely been taking more risks and been quite out of my comfort zone with the outfits I’ve been choosing lately but I’ve loved trying new things. Who knows what I will try next?!

Thanks for reading!

Hannah x

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Getting back on track – Featuring Topsy Curvy Khaki Sports Stripe Tracksuit

Hi Everybody!

So as you know I’m a huge fan of independent brands and so I was so pleased to hear that my favourite girls over at Topsy Curvy had returned to being an independent again!

With them returning to their own website they put up a code for 10% off your first order and so I decided I would make use of it. The code is HELLO10. Being newly post op my immediate thought was to buy something comfy, to lounge around in but also something I could wear whilst doing the school run as Eleanor has just started nursery. I eventually decided on a tracksuit but couldn’t decide between the black and the khaki. After consulting my lovely followers on Instagram I settled on the Khaki Sports Stripe Tracksuit. I placed my order, got the discount and eagerly awaited my new tracksuit arriving.

The tracksuit arrived quicker than anticipated – perfectly in time for Eleanor’s birthday outing to the cinema. We planned to have a walk around the shops in town after and so I thought that this would be the perfect opportunity to wear my new tracksuit as it’s comfy, cosy and practical. I ordered the 22/24 and found it true to size, if not a bit generous – depending on how you would want to wear it. I liked to wear mine fitted but still found that I had a bit of wiggle room.

 

Despite it being quite a thin material it was surprisingly warm and I didn’t actually wear the jacket I took out with me. I also found it really comfy just to sit in because the waistband is elasticated and so it doesn’t dig in when you sit down. I wore the tracksuit all day and then till I went to bed that night and I didn’t want to take it off (I soon put it back on the morning after though!)

I’m definitely glad I went with the khaki. I feel like it’s a bit different from the safe black I would usually choose and it really suits my current hair colour too. I’ve since worn this tracksuit a few times and have loved wearing it every time. It’s just so easy to throw on and it’s practical but still looks quite smart. I think as the colder days are coming I may invest in another Topsy tracksuit because I’m definitely going to get my moneys worth out of them! I have to say, I was a bit uncertain when I bought this tracksuit thinking it wouldn’t suit me because of my shape. I’ve never worn a full tracksuit before and tend to avoid things that are high necked and generally prefer things which a button/zip front but I felt surprisingly good in this. I pushed what is my comfort zone and ended up with something that I actually love. I’m definitely going to try more things that I wouldn’t usually wear because it seems that sometimes a gamble can pay off. I think as a plus sized woman I have really stuck to “safe” clothes and tried to dress for my “body type” but I’m actually sick of wearing the same things. I’m ready to take more chances with my wardrobe and try new things.

 

Thanks for reading!

Hannah x

Community · fashion · plus size · travel

A return to The Curve Fashion Festival.

** This post is in collaboration with The Curve Fashion Festival **

Hi All!

I’m so excited to announce that I’m going to The Curve Fashion Festival! Really didn’t think I was going to make it this year but I’ve decided last minute to book a train and travel all the way to Liverpool to attend. I can’t wait to see all the brands including my friends at Topsy Curvy and to watch this years catwalks. This year Debenhams will be talking about all things lingerie which I am super excited about as I just love lingerie. As a plus size woman I’ve found it quite hard to find lingerie in the past but the market is expanding and I’ll be interested to see what the catwalk will bring. With my changing shape I’ll definitely need some great lingerie so I’ll be paying attention to both the catwalk and what the lingerie stalls have to offer.

Last year Debenhams talked about all things beauty . I didn’t attend last year which I was really disappointed about however I do love Debenhams beauty and regularly shop there in my home town of Middlesbrough as it has the best selection of different make-up brands. I’m also signed up to their beauty club which is amazing. Not only do you accrue points for every purchase, they also do regular freebies from different counters, you get birthday bonuses such as a free Benefit brow wax and a facial from Elizabeth Arden. Best part is – membership is free!

Like I said, I didn’t think I would be attending this year but when tickets became available I decided at last minute to attend. I’ve not been for a few years and every year I get quite gutted that I didn’t end up going. I think the worry of travelling such a distance alone has always been the key factor in me not going but this year I’ve decided to put my big girl pants on and just go.

I first went to TCFF in 2015 when I was quite heavily pregnant – 35 weeks in fact! SPD had set in and I was actually in a wheelchair by this point. Adam decided to take me to cheer me up as I was struggling at the end of my pregnancy and he drove us to Manchester where it was based that year. I’m so glad that we made the effort to go because it was just incredible. There’s nothing like being in a room with not only other plus sized people but with a load of brands who want to dress us. Where I live there’s literally one plus size shop you can physically go in and so it is quite surreal to go into a room which is literally full to the brim of beautiful fashion that is all available to you.

On top of all the stunning clothes on offer, TCFF is the ultimate place to meet up with friends that you may only talk to online, with other bloggers and where you can actually meet brands face to face. As much as I love the big brands, there’s nothing quite like meeting the small independent brands and meeting the people behind the clothes. A big example of this is Topsy Curvy. I’ve been friends with them for a few years now and I can’t wait to see them again at TCFF. I’m a part of their community group and a very active member. I’ve made friends in the group who I will be meeting up with at TCFF and I really just can’t wait.

I’ll be travelling down on the train. Can’t say I’m looking forwards to the three hour journey there and back, but it will be well worth it to see the brands, the people, the clothes and of course the goodie bag!

No doubt I’ll be posting on here once I’ve returned, so keep your eyes peeled for my post. I’ll try my best to take lots of pictures!

Are you going to The Curve Fashion Festival? Let me know! I’d love to meet up with as many people as possible.

Hannah x

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Jumping on the trend. Featuring THE eBay dress.

Hi everybody!

It’s been a hot minute since I’ve blogged and honestly I’ve missed it. Long story short is I’ve had a few different bouts of illness, I’ve been super busy at home as well as stressed because – I’ve bought a house! We complete today and get our keys and I’m so excited. It’s going to be so cool to be in our own home and be able to do anything we like to it – you all know I LOVE to decorate. I’ll post lots of pictures on here because we have a few DIY’s we’re going to do and I’ll be posting before/after pics of how we decorate. We’re even going to be installing our bargain lino flooring ourselves!

Speaking of bargains, it’s no secret that when it comes to clothes I love a bargain. I generally buy everything either on sale or with a discount code. I hate paying full price and I will shop around for the cheapest version of something before I commit to a purchase. It’s something I’ve always done as I’ve grown up with not a lot of money, then I was a student with zero income and lately we’ve been saving for a house deposit so haven’t really been spending as much on ourselves that hasn’t been essential.

As it got to summer this year I looked at my wardrobe and realised there wasn’t much casual stuff I could wear day to day which wasn’t shorts. I started looking at options and loved the look of the strappy summer dresses with buttons down the middle. I saw loads of people getting them cheap from Primark but being plus size Primark cuts off at a size 20 and I figured I’d never get into one. I did find a few plus size versions in places like New Look but they were around £23 for a plain dress and I really wanted something with a print.

My friend Tina added me to a facebook group called Mrs Gloss & The Goss which is a group centred around hair/clothes/makeup and I saw these eBay dresses popping up on everybody. There was a ton of prints and people were saying they were generous sizing so I decided to see what size they actually went up to. When I looked they went up to a 3XL or a size 20 but the size chart was quite high and I’d read that there was a lot of stretch in them and so I decided that cause they were only £7.49 each I’d just go for it and order the two I was really lusting after.

  

  My first was this beautiful navy sunflower dress. I’m pretty obsessed with sunflowers and they’re my favourite flower so when I saw this print I just had to have it.

The second dress I bought was this pineapple print dress which is just the cutest thing ever. I love anything kitsch and pineapples are definitely one of my favourite prints.

I tried them on straight away expecting them not to fit at all and was pleasantly surprised when they not only fit but really looked nice. I’m a size 24 and the ones I’ve bought have been a size 3XL/size 20. I initially tried them on with no bra but have since worn then with a normal strap bra which does show the bra straps slightly and a strapless bra. I did also worry about the buttons gaping but they’re actually just for show!

I went on to purchase 3 more, white/black/pink stripes, blue/white stripes which I haven’t pictured and a plain khaki one. Now the khaki one never arrived and so I was refunded but I’m almost glad because I’ve read the plain ones are a completely different material and have no stretch. So be mindful if you do order one that plain ones have zero stretch.

These dresses have been a godsend this summer and each one has been well-worn. From family days, meals out and even nights out the dresses have been perfect for different occasions and have been easily dressed up or down.

 

I even wore the dress for a beer garden date with one of my good friends Claire. It was perfect for sitting in the sun drinking hooch.

I’m tempted to buy more of these dresses because there’s just SO many prints and I know I’ll wear them not only in summer but also autumn with boots and a cardigan and even winter with tights and a t-shirt under for a more 90’s look. Such a versatile dress and for the money they are SO worth it. I couldn’t recommend them enough and I know a few people on my instagram have since purchased them because I do bang on about them so much!

Thanks for reading,

Hannah x

fashion · personal · plus size · wedding

Plus Size Wedding Prep. Spend VS Save

Hi all!

I’ve always been one who loves to try to do things herself, especially when there’s some money to be saved. However, I do feel that sometimes it’s nice to have somebody else do things and leave the stress to them.

In August I attended two weddings. One was my brother Shaun and his now wife Anna, and one was a work friend of Adams. I’ll admit I was shocked I was invited to the full event with me not actually meeting his friend or the bride, but I was grateful to be asked along and happily attended as Adams plus one.

Before the weddings I was having a conversation with my cousin about just how much weddings cost and you don’t realise how much you pay out just as a guest. This set something off in my mind and I thought I would challenge myself to do an old vs new. So, for one wedding I would get my hair/makeup/nails etc done and buy a whole new outfit and then for the other I would do my hair and makeup myself and shop my own wardrobe for a dress!

Now I know personally which look I preferred, and I know which got the most comments etc on the day, but please do let me know below which look you preferred first!

Wedding one – Spend!
Of course I chose my brothers wedding to be the one I splashed out on. I did this for a few reasons. My mum was also getting her hair/makeup done, I had Eleanor to consider so had less time to get ready and I wanted to look my best for my brother.

 

My dress was from Little Mistress via ASOS and originally £62, however I did get it on sale and then used ASOS vouchers I had saved up. I wore my fave flatforms (also ASOS) and carried a beautiful beaded bag with chandelier style beading hanging from it.

 

I loved this dress as it was modest, but not too covered. It was incredibly soft and comfortable and very much “my” style. The tulle straps and top of the dress were my favourite and I felt very girly and ethereal throughout the day.

My makeup was done by an old friend from college who decided to re-train as a MUA. I chose her because I found her makeup style to be very natural but still with an impact. I went for a smokey eye, strong brow and pinky/nude lip and quite honestly loved the look.

My hair on the other hand wasn’t what I asked for, and this is after asking for it to be changed. I had originally asked for a beehive style front, with braiding around the sides into the back and then the hair in a chignon. Instead she fish braided my hair using plastic hair ties and then tucked the bottom up in a weird bulky bun. I didn’t like this at all and asked for it to be changed, but didn’t have time to change the full thing as she was already running 40 minutes behind and I was late for the MUA. My mum actually had to leave me at the hairdressers and get her makeup done first as it was taking so long.
I asked for the plait to be changed more like a bun and the lady did this which I did like more but still wasn’t what I had in mind. Still, it looked pretty and went with the flowers I’d bought to pop in (again from ASOS). Untangling it and those plastic ties however – wasn’t very fun!

 

Some more snaps from the day! It was such a beautiful day and so special. I was so glad to spend it with the people I love and felt confident and happy in my outfit choice.

Wedding two – Save!

The second wedding we went to was a friend of Adams. I was actually quite surprised to be invited to the whole event as I’d not met the bride or groom, but thankful to be going along as Adams plus one all the same. I actually ended up getting to know some really wonderful people who were all so kind and complimentary and I had a really great time. So if you’re reading this Kieran & Aimee, thank you for having me – I had a blast!

For this wedding I decided to go for the save option and did my own hair and makeup and dug out a dress from the back of my wardrobe. I borrowed a handbag from my mum and popped on my nude flatforms (ASOS).

 

The dress is one I’ve had for quite a long time. It’s the Collectif Dolores Doll dress in White Hibiscus print. This one has long sold but you can find similar here. I love the way a the dolores dresses nip you in at the right places and flare out just enough. I actually swapped this dress with another blogger a few years back so didn’t actually “pay” for it. Clothes swaps are a great way to freshen up your wardrobe without spending money but whilst also having a good clear out! Win win win!

For my makeup I went for a more understated look. I went for full coverage matte foundation, light pink blush, a smokey eye with cat flick and a dark nude lip. Oh and as always – a strong brow.

Again with my hair I wanted to give a nod to the vintage vibe of the dress and so curled my already short bette bangs under and pinned the sides back away from my face. I did this both so I didn’t get too warm and also to add some volume. I let the rest of my hair hang down my back and finished it with some pretty cream clips.

      

As I said previously, I had such a good time at this wedding. It was a beautiful day with an intimate ceremony then on to a stunning venue for the rest of the day/night and I felt comfortable in both settings in my outfit choice. My dress wore well and I felt confident all day!

Both days were both wonderful and I felt great in both outfits and got a lot of compliments. I think for me it was good to see that I could shop my wardrobe as needed and give an old dress a new outing.

Either way, I don’t think it would of mattered what I wore (within reason). The day wasn’t about me – it was about those two couples dedicating their love to each other and standing up in front of their friends and family and saying that this is the person I want to spend every day with for the rest of my life. And really, even Collectif dresses aren’t quite as beautiful as that.

Thanks for reading, let me know below which outfit you preferred!
Hannah xx